Decluttering: Finding space in your home and life
- Organised and Proud

- Oct 3
- 3 min read

In Julia Donaldson and Axel Scheffler's delightful book A Squash and a Squeeze, the theme of managing space cleverly mirrors our own lives and homes. As we navigate different stages of property ownership, we often find ourselves in scenarios that lead to clutter—a feeling of being squeezed in our own spaces. Let’s explore the three common scenarios people face when acquiring property and how they relate to the need for decluttering.
Scenario 1: First-Time Homeowners
For many, purchasing their first property is an exciting milestone. Fresh out of their childhood bedroom or rented accommodation, where their belongings were limited, new homeowners often revel in the freedom to decorate and accumulate. Essentials like pots and pans are quickly joined by items that seem like they would be nice to have—decor, gadgets, and furniture. Before long, what started as a cosy space can feel cluttered and overwhelming.
This is reminiscent of the initial stages in A Squash and a Squeeze, where the protagonist starts with ample room but soon realises the space is cramped with too many items. The key lesson here is to be mindful of what we bring into our homes. As you settle in, remember that decluttering is crucial to maintaining a comfortable living space.
Scenario 2: Upsizing
When individuals, couples or families move into larger properties, the excitement continues but can lead to new challenges. It’s common to replace furniture or upgrade to accommodate a more spacious environment. Over time, regardless of whether there are children involved, the home can start to feel cluttered as new items are acquired to fill the space.
Much like the characters in A Squash and a Squeeze, who learn about the importance of space, homeowners in this scenario might find themselves feeling the squeeze as they accumulate decor, appliances, and other belongings. Regular decluttering can help keep the home organised and ensure that every item serves a purpose
Scenario 3: Downsizing
Downsizing presents its own unique hurdles. Many people in this scenario attempt to fit lots of their possessions into a smaller space, often with the best intentions of decluttering. However, as time goes by, it’s easy to get accustomed to living amidst clutter.
This mirrors the story's theme, where despite the initial spaciousness, the characters learn that they must part with certain items to truly enjoy their surroundings. Downsizing requires a strategic approach—taking stock of what you truly need and what can be let go. This process not only reduces clutter but also revitalises your living environment.
The Importance of Decluttering
In all these scenarios, the need for decluttering is evident. As we fill our homes, it's easy to forget about the space we initially had. By removing items that no longer fit or serve a purpose, we can restore a sense of openness and comfort.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed and your home has become a squeeze, consider reaching out for professional help. I specialise in decluttering and organising within the Bromley Borough and surrounding areas, and I also offer remote coaching services, so no matter where you are, it's likely that I can help.
Feel free to visit my website for more information and read through my Google reviews for insights from others who have transformed their homes. Remember, it’s never too late to reclaim your space and enjoy a more organised life.
Vicki
Organised and Proud




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